Dear my ex’s current.
I understand that you hate me,
but that’s not a reason
for you to stalk me.
If you know about me
it is because he told you about me.
No. I was not horrible to him.
Not that he said that.
I understand that the things he said about me
were good things regarding me.
And some he probably shouldn’t have shared with you.
But here’s the thing.
There’s a reason he’s my ex.
I am however far away.
Not that me being far away is the only reason.
When you appeared on my social media
you gave me a reason to suspect that you are insecure.
But I gave you the benefit of doubt
since he was at the time your boyfriend
and still had me as a friend on social media.
As time went by it got to the point
that I had to block you and him.
And you and I weren’t even friends there.
Since you had already gone through my social media
by using his account you were able to see who my friends are.
The thing that really made you a stalker
is the fact that you started messaging my friend
to try to gain information about me.
Darling that was a bad move.
That friend would show me the messages
and send me screenshots.
It got to the point where you started asking
my friend if I was at a certain store “last night.”
Which yes I was.
Our question was,
“How did you know that?
Especially since I moved to a different city
and I have never met and never heard about you
before my ex told me about you.”
Did you ever stop to realize what that made you look like?
And no offense but I knew you two would not last.
Why? Because I know him.
And because I thought you and him truly did deserve each other.
If I had to give you any clues as to why,
it is because I kept him grounded
you got him into trouble right up to the point
of him almost getting arrested.
And the time he was with you
he thought about me,
at least that’s what I was told.
When you guys ended he quickly became relieved.
I sent my friend, his best friend screenshots of the messages
between you and my friend to give to my ex
and he had never felt more relieved to have you out of his life.
And guess how long it took him to come running back to me?
Especially since he found out that I didn’t send the screenshots
sooner because I didn’t want to come between you and his relationship.
And because I didn’t want to well…deepen your insecurities
and eventually become a problematic stalker.
You see. Sucking a man’s dick only goes so far,
but a real connection goes a long way.
Written by: Dorita C.